Dili’s Journal 傾聽你的心 ― dedicated to the people that got me here.

Who has touched you?

Our world is busier than ever. We call on favors, receive help – sometimes out of desperation, and then conveniently forget the hands that carried us to the next level. Only memories of their shortcomings during the process color our minds as we convince ourselves that even though they were a lot of help, something…

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Eye Contact: From a Cat Culture to a Dog’s World

This is just a muse. While discussing compassion and acceptance in a small group session recently, our facilitator gave an example of how during a party or similar event, it feels unsettling when a person you are in conversation with is scanning around the room. “It’s almost like you are invisible to them – like…

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How Are You?

There are times you can’t stop looking at your own reflection in the mirror. There are also times when you all but sneak up on it, and avoid making eye contact. “How are you?” This is probably one of the most ubiquitous of questions in English speaking cultures. It is often part of a greeting,…

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Vision or Passion: Which Drives You?

Most people start out with a vision: a purpose or change they want to see or become. Over time and commitment, they gradually gain dedication for their cause. Then comes passion: an emotional outburst toward the vision or dream. Passion is as fuel. It consumes and drives the charge, which is necessary. However, passion is barely…

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