Dili’s Journal 傾聽你的心 ― dedicated to the people that got me here.

Closure

I was well into my twenties before I understood that anyone held an opinion about my worth. Where I grew up, this had never come up. A child in those towns is many things to many people, a son, a nuisance, a future, a mouth, but the one thing he is never asked to do…

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The Devil in Scale

To Geoffrey and Ngozi Anyaso; Big Daddy and Big Mummy, figures who only grow…

15 May, 2026 Essay

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20 April, 2026 Trade

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27 March, 2026 Trade

Shadow Product

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11 March, 2026 Trade

Dying Forward

To Mrs. S. O. Adigun; my world of a school principal. Thank you, ma'am. [textblock…

20 February, 2026 Trade

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10 February, 2026 Essay

Severance

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21 January, 2026 Trade

The Emperor's New Complexion

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4 January, 2026 Essay

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30 December, 2025 Trade

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26 December, 2025 Essay

Trust Channels

To Barbara Spohn; the angel in the storm. "It is more shameful to distrust…

15 December, 2025 Trade

The Chrysalis

To Laurie Amber Chandler; the purest and most noble of love. "Wúrà tó máa…

22 November, 2025 Essay

Building Something New

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17 November, 2025 Trade

Cosmic Seasons

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28 October, 2025 Essay

Pilgrim’s Heartbreak

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19 October, 2025 Essay

Undream

To Susan and Allen Scott; never enough words to love you. Ever wonder what…

15 September, 2025 Essay

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