Dili’s Journal 傾聽你的心 ― dedicated to the people that got me here.

The Emperor’s New Complexion

Nobody is white. This seems like an odd place to start, but look at your arm under decent light. Unless you’ve recently died, you will not find white. You’ll find beige, maybe with olive undertones. Pink if you’ve been exercising. Cream, sand, wheat – the cosmetics industry abandoned ‘white’ as a descriptor generations ago because…

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Startup Mechanics

If you collected the reasons startups fail and arranged them by what founders believe versus what the data shows, you’d find a striking mismatch. Founders tend to blame external forces – fierce competition, bad timing, market downturns. The evidence points inward. Most startups die from dysfunction that builds quietly inside: relationships that fracture, psychology that…

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What We Know

Visit your dentist twice a year. Sleep eight hours in an unbroken block. Floss every night. These instructions arrive wrapped in the authority of science, the reassurance of consensus, the patina of timelessness. They feel like facts discovered rather than decisions made – as though someone in a laboratory, bent over instruments, unearthed them from…

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Connective Trust

Most career advice treats networking like compound interest – just keep depositing connections into your account and watch wealth accumulate. Build relationships. Expand your circle. Never eat lunch alone. The advice isn’t wrong, exactly. It’s just radically incomplete. What nobody tells you is that some connections subtract. They drain energy, compromise judgment, or expose you…

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